Be it you want stop smoking, lose weight, change careers,
build a better business, start something new, or end something bad, we all make
new year’s resolutions year in and year out. One year later most of us return
to make the same resolution, pretending that the last time out didn’t count or
even happen. The fire in these self promises lose their spark as fast as they
come to one’s mind. Resolutions are all about goal setting. Goal setting is
about making decisions and sticking to them. For example: If today you were to
buy an airline ticket to fly to Barcelona, you will make sure you are on that
plane. When you’re on that plane there is no turning back. You are going to
Barcelona. You may not like the smell of the person beside you. There might be some turbulence; maybe you have a fear of flying. It doesn’t matter. You made a decision to go. You will do what it takes and put up with unpleasantness. You
are focus on where you are going and you will get there. It’s the same frame of
mind you need to tap into if you want success with you resolution. Buy the
ticket for the goal you want to achieve. Get on that plane and arrive at your
destination. Make the decision. Nobody wants to be left behind in the airport. How can you achieve your new year’s resolution? Firstly, change the words. Call it an ‘all
year resolution’. It’s not just for the New Year. That's why most of us fail. Once the New Year is over we forget about our resolutions. You have to think: it’s from this point forward.
Then, change the word resolution to revolution, self revolution. The word revolution
doesn’t always mean uprising or war. John Lennon promoted the revolution of love
and peace. A resolution is an idea, a promise of a self contract, which in the
case of a New Year’s resolution is easily broken. A revolution, on the other
hand, is an action, act to bring change. Write
down your goal, stick on your wall and look at it daily. Want it. Really want
it. Update your progress on a weekly base. Like all great revolutionaries, when
you reach your goal help others to reach theirs.
Drop themonkey business and make an ‘all year round self revolution’. It could be the best decision you ever make.
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